It's my dad's 65th birthday and he has requested a big dance party. Heavy apps, full bar, Naperville, IL area, approx 100 ppl, a handful of kids (8-14) until after we eat, then lots of dancing and drinking. Need a venue that allows for a dj and dance floor, serves good finger foods and isn't going to break the bank.
Have you checked out Reserve22 in Glen Ellyn? I think it would fit your needs well!