AJMorrisPhotography
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 10:35 AM
Well.. What state are you located in? Do you have an idea of when you guys would like it? I am a photographer in North Carolina (I'm willing to travel). I also work with a wedding planner in North Carolina (she too is willing to travel). Do you have a budget? Please, feel free to visit our websites. I have wedding packages on my page, but willing to work things out with you if you don't want something.
Websites:
Planner ("Special Events" by Sandy)
www.iplan4u-sandy.com
Mine (AJ Morris Photography)
www.ajmphotos.net
Thank You,
Ashley J Morris
AJ Morris Photography
ajmphotos@hotmail.com
www.ajmphotos.net
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greg
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 10:36 AM
What area are you looking to get married in? Different areas have differnt sites that do best 4 u
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crosbykandace
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 10:39 AM
We do have a budget but not quite sure what it is right now, i guess we will just decided when we get an idea on what the different people charge.. and we are located in statesboro georgia. we dont want to have an outside wedding just in case it rains. so definitely in a church.
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 10:49 AM
Hi!! There are many websites that are helpful. Weddingwire.com is affiliated with The Knot, but has some different attributes as well as a forum of other future brides where you can blog, ask questions and get others input. I am a wedding planner in Maine and would be happy to help you, or even just answer any questions you might have. If you would like to reach me I can be contacted at mackie@eventsbymackie.com. I am also on wedding wire or you can go to my website at wwww.eventsbymackie.com. Again if you just have some questions, let me know.
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Blastoff
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 11:04 AM
Everybody has a 'budget'. I never met someone who didn't care about the bottom line. All the advise you are getting is OK, but here is the real deal. It is wise to hire a wedding planner who will help make this the best day of your life. If you have to skimp on flowers, drinks, or whatever..this will save your day. you have no idea of the many things that can up 'day of' so bite the bullet. I am a pro photographer with 23 years experience and I know what I am talking about. You'll be glad you did.
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Bounceband
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 11:23 AM
Congratulations on your wedding. I agree with the above posts. Hire a planner. My band plays weddings almost every weekend, and the major difference with them are the ones that has a planner makes it a fabulous day.
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 11:57 AM
Congrats!!!! I'm with creative eye media, my wife and I have been married for 7 years. Planning it herself, she found that when you have a certin budget you have to get the best bang for you buck. We found many photographers and video over our budget thats why we created our own company. Our new photobooth service is where everyone can get into the picture. better than your normal box camera on the table. Hope to hear from you.
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Quentin
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 12:02 PM
I have to say that planning is important, but a wedding planner is not required if you have the time and passion to plan your own wedding. I've been part of many weddings that have been planned by the bride. But a budget is important to start with, as its amazing how quickly a wedding cost can add up otherwise.
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 2:49 PM
i definitely want to plan it myself, i just really need to get an estimate of how much everything will be..
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crosbykandace
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 2:50 PM
^ that was me, didnt realize i wasnt still logged in.
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Jcornwell86
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 3:55 PM
I'm also starting to plan my wedding...I'm starting a year in advance and already feel behind...I'm located in Iowa and find that very few vendors represent the midwest here...very disappointing because I need ideas and can't seem to find any 
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 5:24 PM
try to contact casanovacatering san jose at this tel numbers 408 661 8560 for wedding that saves you more and look for chef Luigi
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AJMorrisPhotography
Posts: 28
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 5:27 PM
Jcornwell86 wrote:
I'm also starting to plan my wedding...I'm starting a year in advance and already feel behind...I'm located in Iowa and find that very few vendors represent the midwest here...very disappointing because I need ideas and can't seem to find any
If you need a photographer, I am willing to travel. Please visit my website, I have wedding packages posted. After viewing, please email me if you are interested. I am also willing to work out something within your budget.
Thank You,
Ashley J Morris
AJ Morris Photography, NC
ajmphotos@hotmail.com
www.ajmphotos.net
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AJMorrisPhotography
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 5:30 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
^ that was me, didnt realize i wasnt still logged in.
You can always plan your wedding, but on your special day, I'm sure you wont want to take care of everything. Trust me, I planned everything for my wedding and on my wedding day, it felt like I couldn't enjoy myself because I had to make sure all of the little things are correct. If you can find a planner that will do "The day of" that would be good.
Good Luck =)
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Quentin
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Posted on: May 21, 2010 at 5:39 PM
It can be a problem finding a local, if you are looking outside your area, I am a photographer and able to travel. You can check out my website at www.sarafinchan.com and when your ready we can figure out a package that works for you.
Cheers,
Quentin J Sarafinchan
quentin@sarafinchan.com
www.Sarafinchan.com
403-852-5003
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taylormadedreams
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Posted on: May 23, 2010 at 3:35 PM
HI, I know planning your own wedding can be a great experience, but sometimes you just need a little boost to get you started. I am a wedding designer and planner and we often meet with clients that may just need us to guide them. Find a planner that can meet with you and get you started on your budget and price break down, and after that you can hire them on a as needed basis just to make sure you are headed for success and not disaster. Its worth it to make sure all the details are covered.
GOOD LUCK
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Guest
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Posted on: May 26, 2010 at 4:45 PM
Thanks everyone. i will check into everything and talk to him about it.
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Guest
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Posted on: May 26, 2010 at 5:03 PM
I agree with taylormadedreams. Beginning with an event/floral designer will help you figure out a budget since we know how much most things cost. After that consultation you will know how much of a wedding planner package you will need. You will definitely need someone to hire to get you down the aisle and to oversee the reception. Susan at www.theeventdivas.net
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hhiltwine
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Posted on: May 27, 2010 at 2:44 PM
Congratulations on your Engagement! I am a Wedding Coordinator and if you need any help with things let me know. I have websites and other information that I give to my clients that want to plan there own wedding but just need a little bust. My email is hhiltwine@gmail.com and I would be glad to help you.
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imtweetyd
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Posted on: May 27, 2010 at 7:24 PM
My daughter is registered with The Knot also. One issue I see is that they only show venues and vendors that can afford to advertise through them (which means more expensive for you). I have found information my daughter hasnt been able to just by doing web searches. Changing the wording (ie: from reception site to reception venue) can bring up a whole new set of options. Be creative with your searches. If on a budget, use words like inexpensive, budget friendly, bargain (annsbridalbargains.com). I don't know about you, but I cannot afford a wedding coordinator to do the exact thing I am doing. Just cut a couple hours out of your television viewing to search.
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djdaddyd
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Posted on: May 29, 2010 at 3:18 AM
The post wedding reception is the fun part of the day where family and friends gather to eat, mingle, and PARTY. Thats where the DJ comes in. He will orchestrate with you what music to play and will assist in MC'ing the affair as well. I specialize in weddings, so when you are ready to plan that part of the wedding contact me:
DJ DaddyD at www.djdaddydonline.com.
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crosbykandace
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Posted on: May 30, 2010 at 2:04 PM
he decided that were werent going to do anything that was not local, to much of an expence he said. im glad i started planning early, because i can tell this is going to be difficult.
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Quentin
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Posted on: May 30, 2010 at 4:25 PM
It will be okay, you have plenty of time, just break the wedding down into separate parts and tackle it that way. Each task will be a lot easier to manage that way and some will become trivial. Don't worry there are lots of very helpful and informative people out there to help you along the way to your wedding day :-)
Cheers,
Quentin J Sarafinchan
quentin@sarafinchan.com
www.Sarafinchan.com
403-852-5003
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makeupbynika
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Posted on: Jun 2, 2010 at 2:44 PM
Hi, I know planning weddings can be stressfull, but with the right help and guidance it can be fun and rewarding. I am planning a wedding but I am also a Makeup Artist. I have contacts with photographers and hairstylists if needed in the Tacoma, WA area. So any of you Brides-to-be looking for services or Makeup for your special day, feel free to email me. My mom is also a caterer and does wedding cup cakes. makeupbynika@yahoo.com
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rouiremk
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Posted on: Jun 2, 2010 at 3:37 PM
Hi Kandace! I'm not a photographer, or a caterer or anything related to a wedding, except that I was in your position 5 years ago and had to plan a wedding in 4 months. I didn't have a lot of time like you do so I can give you a little advice. I used a few websites like theknot.com and found that it was more useful for ideas and planning things in order and telling how far in advance we should book things. The number one thing you have to decide is where you are going to get married. Are you getting married in a church with a reception? outside? on a beach? a park? etc. Once you have this decided, then you'll have to figure out what else you need. Some places have packages you can choose from that include everything like food, drinks, photographers, flowers, etc. The one thing that I was most concerned about was - I wanted the planning to be easy (no stress), and I wanted the food to be amazing! People lways remember the food! So, I found a great caterer that helped me plan the wedding too! I did nearly everything myself to save money .. I used flowers from my back yard for the table arrangements (I chose something in bloom when I got married) and then looked through tons of wedding mags to get ideas about everything else. My wedding was very simple though, it was in my mother-in-laws backyard, we set up a tent in the front for dining and dancing and to be honest it was so nice and NOT stressful! I wasn;t worried about things running at certain times, when to cut the cake, pictures or anything .. because everything was in one place we just went with it and it was so fun and everyone had a great time. Anyway, if you want a large fairytale wedding, then I suggest a planner. Or maybe you can find a caterer who will help you plan? Good luck and congratulations!
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DesertLightWeddings
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Posted on: Jun 3, 2010 at 1:24 AM
crosbykandace wrote:
i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
I think your first step is to determine your budget (I think below you said you had one, but not totally sure of it yet). Then decide what you two want. Live music, DJ, videographer, venue type etc. This site has many vendors and you can get an idea from each that respond to your request what they have to offer, cost, and see if you want to talk to them. For the things you want to consider, find a checklist. You can do a google search for one or my site has one you can download. Use it for a guideline.
A great site where you can connect with other brides and with vendors and get information is www.bridaltweet.com. Free to use and a great site.
If your budget allows, talk to a planner in your area or the area where you plan to get married. Many offer full service all the way to just giviing guidance. It helps.
You can find a checklist at www.desertlightweddings.com
Good luck and enjoy your planning...this is your time!
Robbie
Desert Light Weddings
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Day2RememberEvents
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Posted on: Jun 4, 2010 at 12:11 PM
There are many vendors, planners, reception sites etc.. on here that can be of much help. I suggest contacting a wedding planner in your area... you will be surprised how much they have to offer. And if you choose the right planner your wedding day for the both of you should be enjoyable and stress free. HAPPY PLANNING!
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 9, 2010 at 9:17 PM
Is it possible to have a nice formal wedding and a casual reception for under $5,000. Or do I up the budget to$10,000?
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DesertLightWeddings
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Posted on: Jun 10, 2010 at 12:22 AM
To sbarnhart1974 - yes you can do it for about $5000 but it depends on size and what you want (entertainment, venue(s), food, drink). Your decor can be something you create on your own and can be gorgeous (wedding in Hilton Head the bride made hers for about $22 each table...I am going to use the idea they looked so great). Get your invitations and flowers from somewhere llike www.costco.com. Again look great, no issue with quality, and you can save money. Don't skimp on your photographer...these are your memories BUT shop around. Look for discounts and packages from your vendors. You can do it.
Here is a link to a blog I wrote. The title is under $15K however the wedding was more like $5K with about 60 guests, beautiful venue, DJ, and great food. http://thewedhub.com/index.php/how-to-plan-a-15k-wedding-in-arizona/
Hope this helps!
Robbie
Desert Light Weddings
(480) 235-0325
contact@desertlightweddings.com
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yourstylewedding2010
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Posted on: Jun 11, 2010 at 12:29 AM
Congratulations on getting married! I know how hectic it can be planning a wedding. Im a wedding planner and if you need help, I can assist you. For more information you can visit www.yourstyleweddingplanner.com Best wushes on this exciting journey!
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 11, 2010 at 3:59 PM
We knew what our colors for the wedding was going to be. The dress was the hard part. Found the first dress. Got ruined had to go and get a second wedding dress. Now is getting the party favors and the deposits.
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 16, 2010 at 9:28 PM
DesertLightWeddings wrote:
To sbarnhart1974 - yes you can do it for about $5000 but it depends on size and what you want (entertainment, venue(s), food, drink). Your decor can be something you create on your own and can be gorgeous (wedding in Hilton Head the bride made hers for about $22 each table...I am going to use the idea they looked so great). Get your invitations and flowers from somewhere llike www.costco.com. Again look great, no issue with quality, and you can save money. Don't skimp on your photographer...these are your memories BUT shop around. Look for discounts and packages from your vendors. You can do it. Here is a link to a blog I wrote. The title is under $15K however the wedding was more like $5K with about 60 guests, beautiful venue, DJ, and great food. http://thewedhub.com/index.php/how-to-plan-a-15k-wedding-in-arizona/ Hope this helps! Robbie Desert Light Weddings (480) 235-0325 contact@desertlightweddings.com |
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 16, 2010 at 9:30 PM
I'm in NY. I am having second thoughts about my venue they want the deposit upfront. All of it. I'm not sure if I can do that! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!
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DesertLightWeddings
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Posted on: Jun 16, 2010 at 11:18 PM
Many venues and vendors want the deposit when you sign the contract to lock in your date. If you cannot do all of it at once, talk to them. Tell them what you can do for example, if they want 1/2 now and 1/2 30-60 days prior to your wedding, say I can do 1/4 now and in 30 days or whatever (don't have when your wedding date is so I'm just picking a timeline here) I can do the remaining 1/4 of the deposit.
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 23, 2010 at 2:18 PM
Go to www.1weddingsource.com. There they have a 72 page step-by-step planning guide. My wedding is next year and I have been using that reliously. As far as venues, keep looking on the internet. They even have a check list. This should help you out. There are also articles within the planner that you can print out as well. The first thing that I did, was to call the courthouse in your state to find out how much in advance you need to get the marriage license. There are things that you can personally change in the checklists that comes with this booklet as well as budget planning guide.
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Posted on: Jun 24, 2010 at 1:35 AM
sbarnhart1974: You most definitely can have a beautiful wedding for 5,000$ the biggest factor is how big your invite list is. I recently flew to Idaho to do a wedding and the total cost was about 3,200$> It can be done. You can be thrifty without being cheap. Be creative and ask for help. Good Luck...Taylor Made Dreams <3
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aversil
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Posted on: Jun 24, 2010 at 1:58 PM
Stress-free wedding planning begins now with Amiress Versil Wedding & Event Planning!
Your engagement is a special time that you should enjoy to the fullest. Don't spend it stressing out about your wedding details. We'll discuss all your ideas at length, then design a plan with a variety of options for you to consider. When you give us the go-ahead, we'll make it all happen, keeping you updated regularly, of course. You can just sit back and sample cake, taste champagne,
and smell the roses. Our prices are affordable.
Visit our website for more information www.pwpfl.com
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agillum5
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Posted on: Jun 26, 2010 at 5:10 PM
Hi, congrats on your engagement! I hope you are finding everything that you need. There is so much info out there, and loads of info and plenty of people waiting to give it....... If there is anything I can do to help you please feel free to call me or email me anytime and I will be more than happy to help. Take care. Aimee Gillum owner of DIVAlity EVENTS www.divalityevents.com ag_wedding_planner@yahoo.com
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trlyblsd4u
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Posted on: Jun 29, 2010 at 11:21 PM
Try finding a "Full Service Wedding Planning Company" that will handle every detail so u won't have to stress over anything. Planning your wedding should be exciting and fun, and enjoyable. Not stressing you out to the point of no return. Call us and we'll travel and help u out if u can't find no one there to help u 
Αlpha & Ωmega Event Consultants & More...
www.alphaandomegaevent.com
Office 904.720.0067
Fax 904.720.0035
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 30, 2010 at 10:04 PM
I am now back at square one. My wedding is for June 25, 2011. We looked at our venue yesterday, now come to find out it is about $5,000. HELP
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trlyblsd4u
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Posted on: Jun 30, 2010 at 10:18 PM
sbarnhart1974 wrote:
I am now back at square one. My wedding is for June 25, 2011. We looked at our venue yesterday, now come to find out it is about $5,000. HELP
Where are u getting married at? U r looking for the wrong venues in the area u r preparing to marry in. Alpha & Omega will handle all the details for u, so u can enjoy planning ur wedding stress free. We provide affordable pricing to fit every budget, and willl travel to get the job done.
Αlpha & Ωmega Florist
http://www.alphaandomegaevent.com/Floral-Design.html
Office 904.720.0067
Fax 904.720.0035
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jun 30, 2010 at 10:29 PM
We were planning on getting married at the Benn Conger Inn in Groton, NY until we got a our menue for the buffet style reception. Our guests were going to go away hungry. We were told that it would be about 4k for what we wanted until they emailed us and told us does not include granutiy and tax.
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faatin119
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Posted on: Jul 1, 2010 at 5:31 PM
Wow...it is a lot of work planning a wedding. I know because I am planning mine right now as well. My wedding is January 3, 2011. We have a budget of $11,500 for the entire wedding including the honeymoon (well, he's actually the one paying for everything). But of course I am trying to save him money because when he get married his money will be my money and I don't want it to be hard for us. I want to leave enough money so that in case something happens we will have money saved up.
Now, I've been looking for a hall for a long time now and I think I found one. What we are doing is just simply renting a hall and we are going to have some people we know who cooks really good food cater for us. The hall is beautiful. We have to decorate it ourselves, but I have 3 sisters who are willing to do that. I just buy the supplies and explain to them how I want it. You do not need a wedding planner. Make it a fun experience..you only get married once. Find someone you are really close with and ask him/her to help you with the planning. Also maybe try looking for somewhere that will just a rent out a hall to you
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jul 2, 2010 at 3:11 PM
faatin119 wrote:
Wow...it is a lot of work planning a wedding. I know because I am planning mine right now as well. My wedding is January 3, 2011. We have a budget of $11,500 for the entire wedding including the honeymoon (well, he's actually the one paying for everything). But of course I am trying to save him money because when he get married his money will be my money and I don't want it to be hard for us. I want to leave enough money so that in case something happens we will have money saved up.
Now, I've been looking for a hall for a long time now and I think I found one. What we are doing is just simply renting a hall and we are going to have some people we know who cooks really good food cater for us. The hall is beautiful. We have to decorate it ourselves, but I have 3 sisters who are willing to do that. I just buy the supplies and explain to them how I want it. You do not need a wedding planner. Make it a fun experience..you only get married once. Find someone you are really close with and ask him/her to help you with the planning. Also maybe try looking for somewhere that will just a rent out a hall to you
Wow! your getting married on my birthday! The more you have the help you need, the better off you are. What is the theme of your wedding?
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jul 5, 2010 at 9:37 PM
Wedding redo: Dress layaway=bridal store. Shoes got when bought my first dress. Some centerpieces. Maid of Honor Done, making sure that money will be set aside to pay all vendors prepaid credit card Jewlery earrings from the soon to be husband! Bracelet=dollar store,centerpieces=dollar store party favors=dollar stores.Party favors= beach theme party supplies
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kalaidecam
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Posted on: Jul 5, 2010 at 10:15 PM
Jcornwell86 wrote:
I'm also starting to plan my wedding...I'm starting a year in advance and already feel behind...I'm located in Iowa and find that very few vendors represent the midwest here...very disappointing because I need ideas and can't seem to find any
I do destination weddings. View my work at WWW.KALAIDECAM.COM. I was recently published on the Examiner. You can read at:
Article #1
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-46806-Santa-Ana-Pop-Culture-Examiner~y2010m6d24-Victoria-Le-The-Orange-County-photographer-who-is-breaking-the-mold-Part-I?cid=sharing_facebook%3A46806
Article #2
http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-46806-Santa-Ana-Pop-Culture-Examiner~y2010m6d25-Victoria-Le-The-Orange-County-photographer-who-is-breaking-the-mold-Part-II?cid=sharing_facebook%3A46806
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crosbykandace
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Posted on: Jul 8, 2010 at 1:52 PM
i really dont appercite people talking about their own wedding on my blog. write your own
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Jul 12, 2010 at 10:27 AM
What are some of the wesites you have gone to? there are several. I have been to several myself. Keep in mind that most websites are for platium brides and grooms I have found that out myself.
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Supplies
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Posted on: Jul 15, 2010 at 9:51 PM
hi, We have a website at weddingsuppliesunlimited.com to help you with all your wedding shopping we sell personalized wedding accessories, favors, invitations we also have a wedding guide to help answer some of your wedding questions please call us if you have any questions at 401-692-2500.
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CapicuLove1
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Posted on: Jul 16, 2010 at 6:27 PM
crosbykandace
send me an email to my private email address. let me know the following:
* your estimated # of guests
* your date/season
* your full budget and how flexible you are monitarily
* there are a lot of themes you can choose from, but it's important that you do what you both love. if you guys love rock and roll, then a great dance theme would be great. if you are traditional and want lace and white flowers, then do that.
contact me. i'll give you two initial free consultations by email.
Best!
liseramos@msn.com
www.allenspatzphotography.com
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dhall
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Posted on: Jul 31, 2010 at 6:49 PM
Congratulations on your engagement! What area is your wedding?
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sbarnhart1974
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Posted on: Aug 1, 2010 at 1:17 PM
Central New York. Cortland/Homer area. We found our reception venue.
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studiobrides
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Posted on: Aug 2, 2010 at 5:30 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
^ that was me, didnt realize i wasnt still logged in.
Hey there!
I understand your desire to plan your own wedding. This in itself can be both fun and frustrating but it gives you a real sense of accomplishment when you get it all together....right? BUT please remember, as an event planner, I have made relationships, grown those relationships, and negotiated rates that you SIMPLY WON'T GET on your own. I mean no disrespect...but I have the buying power of thousands of brides...you have the buying power of one. It seems a little 'rude' to say it this way...but it is like a small local business going head to head with the large department or discount stores and expecting to get the same prices. For example, when a photographer hears me say to him/her, "I have a bride that falls $300 shy of your package..." what he really hears me say is, "I am sending you yet another bride...work with me on this one...." In my experience with vendors, I can get delivery fees waived, cake cutting fees waived, services discounted, and favors at cost....
I do not feel as if I am cheating these vendors though because I would never ask for a half off or drastic reduction...but small reductions on a lot of services still equal a lot of savings in the end. In fact, 94.8% of the time, I save my brides more than they paid me.
I may not be in your area, although most wedding planners will travel, but I may be able to point you in the right direction or give you some questions to ask those you are thinking of hiring. Feel free to call me at 317-490-7894 for any questions or advice you may need. As always, per the web site agreement, I will offer that at no cost to you.
Suz Haire: owner, designer, planner
Studio Brides & Events, Indianapolis and beyond
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AdBrownWeddings
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Posted on: Aug 2, 2010 at 9:44 PM
Planning a wedding can be stressful. The best investment into your day/wedding is a event planner who does all the stressing for you...I am available to help if you still need it. I am located in Savannah...email me at info@andreatracyevents.com
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wthurow
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Posted on: Aug 3, 2010 at 1:43 PM
Congratulations! The knot is a good site but every professional is not listed on it because they charge a high price to have a good posting.
Our Simple Ceremony in FL offers a professional Officiant for a budget
price. Weddings are expensive enough, and the ceremony should not be. Information can be found at: http://www.oursimpleceremony.com/ Best of luck!
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MajesticDesigns
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Posted on: Aug 6, 2010 at 1:15 AM
Congratulations to all of you! Planning your wedding can be stressful but if you take it one step at a time, it is possible and you can actually enjoy it. I planned my wedding with help from my wonderful Mom and sister. My aunt actually did day of coordination for me. It turned out wonderful. 11 years later, we're still together.
One mother-of-the-bride mentioned to search website for suggestions. That is a good idea. Some of the major websites out there have great professionals on them but it is true. The professionals that you will see first ARE ones that can afford to advertise on the sites.
So my suggeston, and not just because I'm here, but look on some of the forums and see what professionals are making suggestions that MAKE SENSE and see if they are available to help you with your event. If they are willing to give their time to give free advice, then maybe they are willing to work with you to make your event special.
With that said, if anyone is in need of stationery for their wedding, I am a stationer who specializes in affordable custom designed stationery and favors that fits any theme. Feel free to contact me if you need some help.
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Posted on: Aug 6, 2010 at 1:48 AM
Hello i have been to the knot, but also you could use a wedding coordinator. I know me personaly i am a wedding planner and i am currently doing a 50% deal for the first 3 brides that contact me so you could look into it. Check my website at www.divinedesign2010.weebly.com or email me at divinedesigninc.2010@gmail.com
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CapicuLove1
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Posted on: Aug 6, 2010 at 11:04 PM
Dear crosbykandace
Don't forget - there are loads of bridal magazines, many with sheets included for you to plan your wedding yourself - planning sheets and time tables. Also there are many bridal planning books that will also guide you along the process. Take a look at them (you can visit your nearest bookstore that usually has a bridal book section and a magazine section) and browse. You will find something wonderful and for a few bucks be on your way. After you have reviewed your material and it looks way too overwhelming, then you should consult a planner who is well worth the usual cost of $1000-$3000. Well worth it, because they will personally guide you, keep you on a budget and come up with fabulous ideas -- really get to know you and your vision. Here's my book pick:
Your Personal Wedding Planner: A Brides's "Must Have" Companion While Planning the Wedding of Her Dreams by Jo Anna Zaffree (and I'm sure you can order this on Amazon, if you wish).
Also, getting magazines is helpful because there are lots of contests for free honeymoons, limos and other services, so do begin to pick up a different one each month.
Initially, you should have some idea of what you want, ie:
*colors
*modern or traditional
*night party or garden reception
*club atmosphere or countryside
*formal clothing or a more funky, eclectic look
*what are your favorite colors?
*beach wedding or church/temple?
*black tie affair or cowboy ho-down
*winter? summer? fall? winter?
Good luck to everyone! If I can be of help, do contact me!
Lise Ramos
Creative Director
www.allenspatzphotography.com
212-928-6572
liseramos@msn.com
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wckeeper108
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Posted on: Aug 11, 2010 at 2:56 PM
We're planning to get married next summer sometime in June. We'd like the wedding to be outdoors. We just started planning for this so any advice or help is great. I'm a marine stationed out in Washington D.C. but we want to get married back home in Dayton, Ohio. Thanks for the help.
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BrevardMinister
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Posted on: Aug 11, 2010 at 7:23 PM
I used to think wedding planners were a luxury. I planned my own wedding and did fine...until the day of my wedding when I really wanted someone else to take over so I could just enjoy the day and not worry about details. Now that I have been involved in literally hundreds of weddings as a vendor I can tell you the ones with the least problems and the most relaxed couples have been the ones with planners. A good planner can help you establish the budget and then stay within it. They really can be worth their weight in gold.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!
Rev. Ann Fuller
Melbourne, FL
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adehilster
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Posted on: Aug 12, 2010 at 3:14 PM
sbarnhart1974 wrote:
Is it possible to have a nice formal wedding and a casual reception for under $5,000. Or do I up the budget to$10,000?
It all depends what your wants and needs are and how many guests you're inviting. Of course anyone can have a wedding for $5,000, but don't expect to have everything when you're inviting 100 guests to your wedding at $50. In most cities you couldn't have a dinner for 2 for $100, including tax, gratuity, drinks. Be realistic when you start planning your wedding.
Often we get to hear as wedding planners, that "we can't afford a wedding planner". How do you know you can't afford a wedding planner. Wedding planners know the "ins", where to "bargain" shop, get the best deals, find "hidden" venues and more. They also have a more of a negotiating power as they work with the vendors on a regular basis. As a bride to be, you're in general being considered a "one time only" client. You might recommend the vendor but you wouldn't necessary use the services of the vendor anytime soon. Hopefully.
The way we normally work is we start with a wish list of everything the couple would like to have for their wedding. Separately we start a guest list, divided into three segments.
1) All the guests we would want to send an invitation to.
2) All the guests who would most likely say "yes" to come to the wedding
3) All the guests we really would like to have at the wedding
This will help you to get your head around on how many guests you really want, how many guests you really want to invite and how large/small your budget is going to be.
Having planned many weddings, including my own, budgets can run a wide range. My own wedding was a destination wedding in a foreign country. 70 guests came to the wedding. We took care of everyone's needs the day of the wedding plus a separate party the day before the wedding. Our budget was $1,000 per person and was well worth the money spend. All of us are still talking about it and we're currently considering a "reunion" at our 10 year anniversary - coming up in 4 years.
Check out our site at www.adh-events.com/weddings/ or speak to Virginia Lionberger at 312-265-9759 or at vlionberger@adh-events.com for more information.
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adehilster
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Posted on: Aug 12, 2010 at 3:31 PM
wckeeper108 wrote:
We're planning to get married next summer sometime in June. We'd like the wedding to be outdoors. We just started planning for this so any advice or help is great. I'm a marine stationed out in Washington D.C. but we want to get married back home in Dayton, Ohio. Thanks for the help.
Let us know if there is anything we assist you with. We're experts in planning destination weddings, whether it is in Dayton, Ohio or elsewhere. The last few months we've plans weddings in Iowa, London (United Kingdom) and Amsterdam (the Netherlands). Paul, in our office, is from Dayton and still has family and friends there. For any help on planning your wedding, get in touch with Virginia Lionberger at vlionberger@adh-events.com or at 312-265-9759.
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meahyn
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Posted on: Aug 15, 2010 at 6:02 PM
The best suggestion that I was given that really seemed to work is to register for Bridal shows. The are very informative, fun and free! You just show up to 1 location and many vendors are there waiting for all the things you need including a place and everything. They are all looking to get business so they are willing to answer and questions that you have. You are not obligated to anything other than to show up. It is a fun time and you can go with a friend or family member, even the groom. Good luck!
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GLAMLYFEPROMOTIONS
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Posted on: Aug 30, 2010 at 3:21 PM
IF YOU NEED HELP PLANNING YOUR WEDDING PLEASE CONTACT ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
GLAMLYFEPROMOTIONS@GMAIL.COM
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rachel.nickle
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Posted on: Sep 4, 2010 at 10:29 AM
ok, I'm plannin my 2nd wedding. it has been pretty easy since for both of them I have started planning 9 months in advanced. Neither time did I set a budget, and my first one was less than 8,000.00 and this one isn't even close so far! the key is with a budget, dont set one. dont limit yourself on what you want---BUT ONLY SPEND WITHIN YOUR MEANS! that way you wont be going into debt. and also, CHOOSE WHAT PLEASES YOU--NOT YOUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS!
Also, I am in need of a dj and videographer. My wedding will be in Boonville, IN on Feb. 19, 2011. Any ideas on sites or vendors anyone???
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angelweddingandeventplanners
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Posted on: Sep 9, 2010 at 4:25 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
Hi there....I'm a wedding planner that is cheaper than most....I can help you out with all the details for $650 flat rate, that includes all planning, rehearsal and day of.
e-mail me if you interested!
angelweddingandeventplanners@hotmail.com
Crystal Blackwood
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lynn1101
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Posted on: Sep 16, 2010 at 11:35 PM
I to just started planing my wedding and I have not yet found a in Dayton.Ohio
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Lori
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Posted on: Sep 24, 2010 at 8:41 AM
Just a thought- If planning your wedding gets to be to much, you could always just go on a cruise and let their wedding planners take care of everything for you. Being in Georgia you are within driving distance to a couple of great ports. Oh and don't worry about your guests and or wedding party, they can either sail with you or just come onboard for your wedding during the embarkation day and then two of you could just sail away. They have many cost effective packages to choose from. Contact : PrestigeTravelVacations.com for more info.
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sharenanaree
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Posted on: Sep 28, 2010 at 1:24 PM
I am in Cincinnati Ohio, and I am having a HARD time finding any thing affordable for my wedding I’m getting married next year in August , and I’m on a very tight budget, the main things I’m really worried about costing an arm and a leg are....VENUE, CATERORS, DECORTAION, PHOTOGRAPHY AND ENTERMAINMENT. If anyone have any ideas please, please please, let me no my email is rena_vinny@yahoo.com Thank you all so much.
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stephanie
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Posted on: Sep 28, 2010 at 2:09 PM
wckeeper108 wrote:
We're planning to get married next summer sometime in June. We'd like the wedding to be outdoors. We just started planning for this so any advice or help is great. I'm a marine stationed out in Washington D.C. but we want to get married back home in Dayton, Ohio. Thanks for the help.
If you'd like a creative and affordable photographer who is avaiable for travel, check out the website: www.angleofincidencephotography.com
Outdoor weddings are beautiful, and June is a great month for weddings.
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stephanie
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Posted on: Sep 28, 2010 at 2:17 PM
sharenanaree wrote:
I am in Cincinnati Ohio, and I am having a HARD time finding any thing affordable for my wedding I’m getting married next year in August , and I’m on a very tight budget, the main things I’m really worried about costing an arm and a leg are.... VENUE, CATERORS, DECORTAION, PHOTOGRAPHY AND ENTERMAINMENT. If anyone have any ideas please, please please, let me no my email is rena_vinny@yahoo.com Thank you all so much.
If you'd like a creative and affordable photographer who is avaiable for travel, check out the website: www.angleofincidencephotography.com
We are available to travel, feel free to contact us with questions.
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stepitupanotch2
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Posted on: Oct 2, 2010 at 8:31 PM
Yes you can plan your own Wedding. It will be better to hire a wedding planner. He or She can help you with your budget, the singing of the contract, help you save money,seating arrangement, keep up with vendors, so that the day of the wedding your not running around with your head cut off. If any thing go wrong he or she is there to take care of the problem.
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gpstutz
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Posted on: Oct 6, 2010 at 11:15 AM
Kandace,
My wife and I own Chicas Bridal in Albany, Ga and this is part of what we do. When brides come in to the store we help them form start to finish so that this special day will not be overtaken by the worries of what to do and how to do it. Our girls are the very best at helping you coordinate your colors with dresses, flowers, and even the guys in their tuxes on the most important day of your life. Let us know if their is anything we can do! Our website is www.chicasofalbany.com. Be blessed and enjoy the journey that will last a lifetime!
Gary & Kim
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anaffairoftheheart
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Posted on: Oct 6, 2010 at 4:19 PM
Yes, Eventective is a good wedding planning source. My only suggestion is if you put a request in for quotes from a vendor, be sure to open the e-mails from the eventective notification you get. I've responded to many requests from couples needing help and haven't had them open the message I've sent. I'm not saying this in a disgruntled manner, but just to inform everyone about the information they have submitted. Some vendors, like myself, will service people with some of your wedding needs, at great prices, even though they are not from your area. You can save a lot of money doing this. My best to you in your wedding planning. Patricia Roth Colorado Springs. =crosbykandace]i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
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marie.sukup
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Posted on: Oct 13, 2010 at 3:05 PM
I just started my planning and I am also in Iowa. I just got engaged last week and am already stressed. Not sleeping and such. My budget in nice however, in iowa it is hard to find anything online that is not totally out of my price budget. I am looking in council bluffs area. Glenwood and such. But I just don't have the money to get a planner because at this rate I am going to have to use it all on my Venue. Jcornwell86 wrote:
I'm also starting to plan my wedding...I'm starting a year in advance and already feel behind...I'm located in Iowa and find that very few vendors represent the midwest here...very disappointing because I need ideas and can't seem to find any |
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DesertLightWeddings
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Posted on: Oct 13, 2010 at 11:01 PM
marie.sukup wrote:
I just started my planning and I am also in Iowa. I just got engaged last week and am already stressed. Not sleeping and such. My budget in nice however, in iowa it is hard to find anything online that is not totally out of my price budget. I am looking in council bluffs area. Glenwood and such. But I just don't have the money to get a planner because at this rate I am going to have to use it all on my Venue. Jcornwell86 wrote: I'm also starting to plan my wedding...I'm starting a year in advance and already feel behind...I'm located in Iowa and find that very few vendors represent the midwest here...very disappointing because I need ideas and can't seem to find any
Marie - you might try to find a planner who offers consultation services too or assistance in just finding the venue and vendor. That way your budget is not impacted too much and you get some help. What sites have you tried to use find your venue? This one is great and www.weddingwire.com and www.gatheringguide.com are good resources as well. There are others...google search wedding venues Iowa. If you get stuck, email me and I'll try to give you some ideas - I am not from Iowa, but I'll try (no charge).
Robbie
Desert Light Weddings
contact@desertlightweddings.com
www.desertlightweddings.com
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karen_pearce
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Posted on: Nov 9, 2010 at 2:04 PM
I need a wedding planner that will plan my wedding in hawaii on May 14 2011. Affordable. I have not got any bites yet. Can anyone recommend someone for me.
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Posted on: Nov 9, 2010 at 4:06 PM
Congratulations! I can help you. I am a very affordable Professional Full Service wedding planner. For more information please visit www.weddingswithharmony.com
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DesertLightWeddings
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Posted on: Nov 9, 2010 at 9:38 PM
karen_pearce wrote:
I need a wedding planner that will plan my wedding in hawaii on May 14 2011. Affordable. I have not got any bites yet. Can anyone recommend someone for me.
Hi Karen - I am not in Hawaii and do not know any planners there, but look here on Eventective and also check www.weddingwire.com. If you do not find anyone, I do travel and would love to talk with you. I'm offering some great specials and a contest you might want to enter (free planner & photographer).
Good luck!
Robbie
www.desertlightweddings.com
(480) 235-0325
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frw-lvn
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Posted on: Nov 13, 2010 at 12:21 AM
Hi Karen. I am a wedding planner in Los Angeles,but I am willing to travel. My name is Felicia Whitfield and I am half owner of an Event Planning business called Purple and Pink Passion.Our website is www.purpleandpinkpassion.com our number is 323-308-7318. WE CREATE MAGIC!!!!! From customized invites to personal honeymoon reservations,we do it all. And besides being within YOUR budget,with as LESS STRESS as possible. We are a family owned business, which really means just WE CARE.Contact us at 323-308-7318
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hammysgirl
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Posted on: Nov 14, 2010 at 6:13 PM
I live in Columbus, Ohio and just started planning our wedding. We are on a very limited budget since my fiance is the only one who works. (I stay at home and watch our baby and go to school) We are basically using our tax return to pay for it so obviously, it is very limited. We were thinking of getting married at one of the Metro Parks in our area, but are looking for somewhere to have the reception. We considered renting one of the lodges from the parks, but we have a big portion of the members of our family that do drink, and we will be having alcohol at our reception, so we need to find an affordable place that we can serve drinks at. If anyone has any ideas that know the columbus area please let me know. We are not looking for anything fancy, just something sufficient that we can make good memories at.
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weddingwishes2011
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Posted on: Nov 15, 2010 at 1:00 PM
I just started planning my wedding for Virginia Beach, Va and it is a little daunting trying to figure out if I can get it done for $6,000 or less. Me and my fiance are paying for this and we both work but we don't need the expenses so high that it gets out of control. I am wondering if it is possible to have a nice wedding of 50 people for this price and where to start in regards to the location. I have gone to many sites and gotten free samples of save the date cards, wedding invitations, and response cards. I was wondering if the response cards are necessary because I am finding that they tend to rival the price of save the date cards, which can be more expensive than the wedding invitations. I want to have the save the date's in the mail by Jan 10, to ensure that everyone gets them by the 15th. I am already overwhelmed and cannot afford a wedding planner (I don't think). Any advice is welcome!
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Posted on: Nov 15, 2010 at 9:24 PM
WeddingWishes2011 --
Yes, response cards are a necessity - it is the only method for getting an accurate estimate of your guest count, which drives the cost of catering, liquor, cake, etc...
As for affording a wedding planner, there are many that can save you money! Just look for more novice planners that can help - and yes, you can afford a planner - you really can't afford not to.
As for doing a wedding for $6000...it is possible. I just planned a wedding for 90 guests at a local art gallery. It was on a Sunday morning, and we served brunch, mimosas, cake, etc. There was a photographer and a string quartet as well as flowers. The couple only had one person on each side, and the total cost (including her dress) was $5,300. So, yes, it is possible.
Courtesy of Events Unwrapped (www.eventsunwrapped.net)
Your occasion. Our expertise. One perfect event!(SM)
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Posted on: Nov 15, 2010 at 9:46 PM
I live in Omaha NE and am beginning to plan my wedding. Budget is huge for us because we have six children and life...and are planning to have a medieval wedding. The only thing we have right now is my wedding dress on layaway. We know that we are having our wedding in September but we don't know if that will be next year or the year after...depends on how available the finances are.
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weddingwishes2011
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Posted on: Nov 16, 2010 at 2:09 PM
That sounds amazing! I was starting to think that I needed to push the wedding back from July to November and move the budget up to $12,000. I was not really looking forward to that but I cannot be surrounded by tackiness either. I have a few ideas for the tables and centerpieces but none for the decor of the reception hall. My colors are red, white, and silver. I am still searching on the internet and gathering information for not necessarily a theme, but for a design that is elegant and cost effective without looking tacky. When I was a little girl I always wanted to have a Cindarella theme, however. The dress, the colors, everything that was in the ball. My, have I changed.
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weddingwishes2011
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Posted on: Nov 16, 2010 at 2:19 PM
As far as planners go, I am a little hesitant on that because I need to make sure that I am not spending 6000 on decor and the event and then having other expenses seperate like the dress, tuxedo and rings. I cannot afford a surprise 2000 bill because I simply will not be able to afford it. I am paying from paycheck to paycheck, as things come up, so I have no room for surprise charges. Another thing is we wanted to have a honeymoon but because the wedding is already so much I don't think we will be able to do that. Getting married is expensive, I see why so many opt to just live together without doing this.
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stephanie.kown
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Posted on: Nov 18, 2010 at 4:27 PM
weddingwishes2011... I am a Professional Wedding Planner and you really can not afford to have a planner. I have a wedding in Jan 2011 for 250 guests withan $11,000 budget including my fee and her dress! It is possible. This Bride is having a lighting company, caterer and DJ. Becasue I am a planner, I receive "discounts" from vendors and pass them along to my client. I offer FREE consults, so if you would like to give me a call, I can give you ideas. I am located in Greenville, SC. 864-469-9795 or contact me through my web site www.greer101flowersandevents.com
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missdixie
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Posted on: Nov 19, 2010 at 6:20 AM
I am in Georgia but, was raised in Elkin NC I am a certified wedding planner and I perform weddings
if you need any help I will help if needed
robin lake
Rojolake Designs LLC and wedding services
912-673-6713
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missdixie
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Posted on: Nov 19, 2010 at 6:23 AM
crosbykandace wrote:
We do have a budget but not quite sure what it is right now, i guess we will just decided when we get an idea on what the different people charge.. and we are located in statesboro georgia. we dont want to have an outside wedding just in case it rains. so definitely in a church.
I would charge gas mileage
and 10% of the cost of the wedding
$30,000 wedding
my cost $3,000 plus gas mileage
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weddingwishes2011
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Posted on: Nov 19, 2010 at 7:45 PM
I found a venue!! I had to look at NC instead of VA because everyone's quotes were too high or they never got back to me for a quote, which is rude and makes me not want to do business with you in the first place. The venue is $500, beautiful, and it's a blank canvas so I can decorate as I need it and I can now afford plated food at $35 a plate. At the end of this I would be well below my budget which is what I was looking for!
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Posted on: Nov 22, 2010 at 2:19 PM
Don't forget the Videographer! All to often the Videographer is an after thought, when it should be one of the first. You put a lot of time and effort into your Wedding, don't you want to remember all the sights and sounds of that day?
Visit our website: www.AgapeCreationsVideography.com
We are changing the way people watch Weddings!
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roger_bou
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Posted on: Nov 26, 2010 at 12:33 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
he decided that were werent going to do anything that was not local, to much of an expence he said. im glad i started planning early, because i can tell this is going to be difficult.
Wow lots of great advise, for you guys. There are tones of things out there to get and do for your wedding. My wife planned our wedding 5 years ago when we got married. And there is a lot that goes into it that is for sure. But don't get overwhelmed just take things on one at a time. For example if you want a photographer, find a couple and get quote, DJ is the same, Caterer is mostly about what you want then what you want to spend. Location we got married on the beach at a local lake and didn't care about the weather, if it rained than we were going to get wet and start the day off uniquely. Our party was the next day the ceremony was only our closest friends and relatives (50 ppl) reception was 250. I am an entertainer and performing magic and balloon animals at weddings and other functions and have found that it is always an exciting and fun addition to any event. So you might want to consider that as well.
Anyway you will figure out everything you need, just take it one step at a time, and remember nothing goes perfectly, as much as we would like it to, roll with the happenings of the planning and day and you will have a very memorable wedding.
Have a great day.
Roger Boucher
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ruschfun
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Posted on: Nov 27, 2010 at 8:32 AM
Being a drummer, DJ, Keyboardist in Saginaw, MI for weddings full time, I have developed a vast knowledge of the wedding industry. I recommend that you find vendors with tons of experience to assist! I just performed at my 1300th wedding, last March! 1971-2010. I know so many vendors, that I ask my brides what else I can do to help! I have referred everything from photographers, videographers, venues, Officiant , etc... These are all Great Vendor that I have worked with before!
I am, currently, helping one of my Aug 2011 brides find a venue, caterer & photographer in Traverse City. She lives in South Carolina. I just LOVE to help my brides, anyway I can! It helps our DJ business, Rusch Entertainment, grow each year! Most Vendors love to give advice.
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enchantedmemoriesweddings
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Posted on: Nov 30, 2010 at 1:04 AM
The other benefit to hiring a planner is that they can help get you lower prices for the things that you want, which will help your budget. I agree that planning yorru own wedding can be very stressful and that is what planners are there for, to make sure that your day is everything you imagined it to be. We make sure that we take care of the little details that might bog you down during your special day. That is actually how I got started in this business. I planned my own and was so swamped in the little things that had to happen, and trying to diffuse situations as they happened, that I didn't really spend much time just enjoying my own reception.
Just keep it in mind. If you decide to use a planner, give me a call and I will help you locate one in your area.
Good luck!
AJMorrisPhotography wrote:
crosbykandace wrote: ^ that was me, didnt realize i wasnt still logged in. You can always plan your wedding, but on your special day, I'm sure you wont want to take care of everything. Trust me, I planned everything for my wedding and on my wedding day, it felt like I couldn't enjoy myself because I had to make sure all of the little things are correct. If you can find a planner that will do "The day of" that would be good. Good Luck =)
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weddingbouquets
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Posted on: Nov 30, 2010 at 3:37 PM
We are a silk wedding flower internet based company in business for 11 years.
We would love to help you brainstorm the different ideas for your flowers based on your color scheme and budget. Give us a call for a FREE 15 minute consultation to help you get started. www.weddingbouquets.com 248-274-9545
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TraffTest
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Posted on: Dec 8, 2010 at 7:24 PM
Check this video, maybe it helps u!!!
http://trafftest.webstarts.com/
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nalevy
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Posted on: Dec 8, 2010 at 8:14 PM
I am planning our wedding for June 12, 2011 .. I am meeting difficulty with my inlaws as his mom is handicapped and uses a walker and they are snowbirds and live in Paramus NJ from April to Nov. My dad is handicapped - needs and uses a wheelchair and has an aide to assist him. It would be a lot easier to have the wedding in South Jersey for my mom and dad who are footing this bill as opposed to Paramus NJ where his parents live. His mom is stating that she cannot travel and not mobile anymore and insists we have it in North Jersey to the point she would cry if she could not be there to see her son get married ... blah blah blah ... I have told her my dad is in a wheelchair and needs an aide. It would be alot easier for my mom and dad to do it in NJ but she is very set in her ways. LOL Mom in law to be travels in a car with father in law every year from NJ to VA which is 6 hours in a car to catch the auto train in Lorton VA and then off the train in Sanford and drive to Boca which is 3 hours. My dad has limited mobility and would travel in a wheelchair van which we bought for him with an aide. It would take about 1 to 2 hours from south to north jersey. How do I convice my mother inlaw and father in law as well as sister in law that it would be better in south jersey and she mom in law can make it 2 hours in a car.
What is the best way to tackle this issue ?
signed
Frustrated Bride trying to keep peace in the families
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lad6363
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Posted on: Dec 8, 2010 at 9:25 PM
You and your fiance' must decide what is best for YOU. You must learn early in a marriage that you can not, and will not, always please everyone. You are a young couple just starting out and there will be many more issues like this down the road - holidays, grandchildren, and other special occasions. Your husband-to-be should be the one to deal with his parents -- you do not want to start out your married life feuding with his mom. You two make a decision, then he conveys it to his parents. It will be up to them to decide what they do with the information. DO NOT beat yourself up over this. If it's important enough for your in-laws-to-be to be there (ie Boca,) then they'll find a way.
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DjTux
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Posted on: Dec 9, 2010 at 1:04 AM
The knot can be quite a decent resource as they have a volume of information, vendors and advice on it. It can appear a little overwhelming at first. But there are a lot of resources within the knot that are reputable companies with reviews you can check out for yourself. Plus the forums are helpful.
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SylverWeddings
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Posted on: Dec 12, 2010 at 9:24 PM
Every Bride should hire a DOC (Day Of Coordinator) - you can also ask local Coordinators if they do A La Carte Services. You can often get extra help for individual items that way. Or pick her brain for an hour on stuff like Venues, DJ's etc. Feel free to email me if you'd like a referral to a local Coordinator...
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voglan
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Posted on: Dec 13, 2010 at 9:51 AM
I am able to perform marriage ceremonies in and around Windsor, Ontario Canada. I am licensed with All Seasons Weddings (allseasonsweddings.com). If you would like me to marry you and your significant other, then please contact me.
Thank you.
Vera O.
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enchantedmemoriesweddings
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Posted on: Dec 13, 2010 at 11:49 AM
I would suggest having your future spouse talk to her. He knows how far she is really willing to travel and could make more headway with her. If the two of you agreed on an area to be married in, don't let her guilt you into changing it, especially since they do make quite a trip twice a year. For them to travel the 1-2 hours south in New Jersey isn't really a long distance considering the trip they make to go to Florida.
Good luck to you! In-laws can be fun to deal with. One quick suggestion. Hire a wedding planner immediately if you have not done so! They will be able to help you deal with the stress of this siutation and help keep the peace in your family.
Kim Schrack
L & S Events
(717) 571-0557
(215) 488-7149
LandSEvents@live.com
nalevy wrote:
I am planning our wedding for June 12, 2011 .. I am meeting difficulty with my inlaws as his mom is handicapped and uses a walker and they are snowbirds and live in Paramus NJ from April to Nov. My dad is handicapped - needs and uses a wheelchair and has an aide to assist him. It would be a lot easier to have the wedding in South Jersey for my mom and dad who are footing this bill as opposed to Paramus NJ where his parents live. His mom is stating that she cannot travel and not mobile anymore and insists we have it in North Jersey to the point she would cry if she could not be there to see her son get married ... blah blah blah ... I have told her my dad is in a wheelchair and needs an aide. It would be alot easier for my mom and dad to do it in NJ but she is very set in her ways. LOL Mom in law to be travels in a car with father in law every year from NJ to VA which is 6 hours in a car to catch the auto train in Lorton VA and then off the train in Sanford and drive to Boca which is 3 hours. My dad has limited mobility and would travel in a wheelchair van which we bought for him with an aide. It would take about 1 to 2 hours from south to north jersey. How do I convice my mother inlaw and father in law as well as sister in law that it would be better in south jersey and she mom in law can make it 2 hours in a car.
What is the best way to tackle this issue ?
signed
Frustrated Bride trying to keep peace in the families
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blossomevents
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Posted on: Dec 15, 2010 at 1:21 PM
Candace, a planner can definately help you save money in the long run! We pre-negotiate with vendors so that we may get the best price and pass it along to our clients! I am the owner of www.blossom-events.net located in Atlanta, georgia and all we require is a $300 deposit--which will go towards your wedding. With the deposit we take you to multiple venues over a weekend. Once the venue is selected we begin our proposal process. In a proposal you will receive basically everything you will need for your big day along with a final price. Again, planners Pre-negotiate deals with vendors so you are sure to receive the best prices! If the proposal comes back too high...you have the option to make changes or remove items all together in order to meet your budget.
Best of luck!
Marta Catania, owner blossom-events.net
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PartyPlannersPlus
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Posted on: Dec 27, 2010 at 7:45 PM
Hi Hammysgirl, Please check out our website for specials that may fit into your budget. Also our Bride's Seminar is coming up in March.
It is hard to plan a wedding with only one working and the other staying home with baby, but it can be done...Hope to hear from you soon to set up your free consultation before the end of the year.
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PartyPlannersPlus
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Posted on: Dec 27, 2010 at 7:48 PM
I wish you were all in Central Ohio. Party Planners Plus has their 2011 Bride's Seminar coming up in March. I have these seminars to help Brides and Grooms know where to start with the planning...and it is such a fun day. If in the Ohio Area you can Register at www.partyplannersplus.vpweb.com
good luck everyone!
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stepitupanotch2
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Posted on: Dec 27, 2010 at 8:51 PM
You will feel so much better if you hirer an event or wedding planning to help with your wedding. Wedding planner have different packages to help you in area where you may need some help. They can coordinate the whole wedding from start to finish. They can coordinate the day of the wedding. They give you advice on vendors, time management, help you stay within your budgets, look over contracts, keep things running smoothly so you can enjoy your day. Help you with the sitting arrangements, timeline, guest list there is so much relief that a wedding planner can give you and it will be worth the pay. Find an event planner in your area.
Sharlita Jordan Event Consultant
Stepitupanotch2@yahoo.com
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Posted on: Feb 16, 2011 at 11:51 PM
We are excited about our wedding in Vegas ... but the stress of having a wedding reception in NJ is driving me crazy. You see I have to plan everything. My fiancee is there for support and moral support and all; but the issue is like I have to plan and make everyone happy. My parents are eager to help and extremely flexible despite my dad being wheelchair bound and needing an aide fulltime. In fact, though it is a hardship they are willing to have the reception in North Jersey because you see my fiancee's mom says she just can't travel to south Jersey because it is too difficult as she is handicapped but walks with a walker and does NOT need a fulltime aide - though she says her husband does everything for her. She practically went off on me when I simply tried to explain it really is a hardship for my parents to travel because plans for an aide - a hospital bed - a home health nurse - need to be secure up in north jersey - My parents and I are footing the bill for this event --- his parents are not paying a dime for this as they are frugal and really don't have the money. So far his uncle and aunt have at least been supportive to find a place in Englewood. But again that is all I did all the calls and have to from a far see what is available and wheelchair accessible let alone see where this place is as my parents and family are making the drive north to an area they are unfamiliar with not too mention a long drive in a wheelchair equipped van for my dad sucks but he is doing it for me. My sister in law and brother wish I could do it in south jersey to make life easier for my dad but oh no fiancee's parents are not for that at all. They are apparently selfish to the point that she actually said I don't give a damn about your father I am too handicapped and can't travel. Oh yet they drive 5 hours in a car to Lorton VA to toake a train every year to FL where they live 6 months out of the year. Oh well have to cater to soon to be mom in law who I have always been there for when she had her medical issues like hospital stays and home care visits and needing any medical stuff or drs or whatever.. I even made sure they had a fully decorated table literally on thanksgiving day bringing them a turkey dinner at their house the day they drove in from nj to fl. She was in tears and loved it so much ... She thought she was having like take out but was suprised by a full turkey dinner and all the trims right at her house and I unpacked them and will do so to pack them back up in April when they go back up north. Guess I have a heart and am there for them. I guess I never saw this side of her as wellas my soon to be father in law get so irrate and irrational when I attempted to try and make them understand how much of a hardship this is for my dad and mom - more for my dad but they just did not care and I love my parents so much and would not think of doing a reception without them. I am so afraid that my dad will change his mind when our day comes June 12 ... Oh and our wedding reception weekend happens to be conveniently coordinated with fiancee's father's birthday. Wow I really bent over backwards and what to get treated like my family means nothing .. hopefully things get better - signed stressed and need a friend to sort things through
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tjordan8402
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Posted on: Feb 17, 2011 at 11:06 AM
The site does pretty good but like the others have said the local area you are getting married in may have their own site.
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KreativeKonceptions
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Posted on: Feb 17, 2011 at 5:48 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
Hey! Planning an entire wedding yourself is definitely overwhelming! I too thought I would be able to handle planning my wedding by myself and I found that it was wayyy too much. I just started my event planning company Kreative Konceptions and for a Day of Coordination my packages are starting at $450 (in comparison to $1,000 from my competitors). You may not need a planner to help plan the entire wedding but you at least need someone to make sure that your wedding day flows nicely.
Antoinette L. Belton
www.kkevents.weebly.com
(912) 429-2766
Hope to hear from you soon:-)
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Posted on: Feb 18, 2011 at 10:59 AM
There are a lot of things on here that will help you I believe and give you ideas, for example I am an entertainer and do wedding receptions, I perform magic and balloon animals for your guests. Of course there are people on here to help you plan your event.
Sometimes just looking in the phone book for a location will help you find what you need. Do you have a date? Call around sometimes a little leg work will go a long way. Generally the people who book out halls and different venues are very helpful in having other places they deal with on a regular basis for exampl flowers and so on.
Thanks have a great day
Roger Boucher
www.WatchingEyeMagic.com
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CapicuLove1
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Posted on: Feb 27, 2011 at 11:28 PM
sbarnhart1974 wrote:
I'm in NY. I am having second thoughts about my venue they want the deposit upfront. All of it. I'm not sure if I can do that! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!
Just read the contract carefully and make sure you do a "tasting" first to be sure you are getting what you pay for. If you are confused, then go elsewhere. This is where a wedding planner can help. Many do want payment upfront if they are giving a considerable discount. My best guess is that they want to cover themselves for last minute cancellations. They have your cash and if you cancel, they won't hurt. Things are bad all around for business these days. I'm a photographer and request 50% up front. Particularly if I am having a great sale. But I try to work with the couple by doing an installment plan so that I am paid by the wedding day. See if they would take, say 50% up front and the rest a week before your wedding day. If they don't cooperate and you feel weird about it, then go elsewhere. Or, have a lawyer read the contract. It's your right to do so. Tell them that you will consult with your attorney and get back to them. This way, you know exactly what you are in for. And, by saying that, they may work with you.
Good luck with that. I know you must be frustrated.
Best,
Lise' Ramos
Creative Director
www.allenspatzphotography.com
www.mybelovedwedandart.com
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ABETTERDJ
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Posted on: Feb 28, 2011 at 8:28 AM
We have DJs and photographers in San Jose and free plannning assistance is included in all oof our packages. We will run your reception for you
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NeotericExpressions
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Posted on: Mar 1, 2011 at 10:15 AM
We encourage our brides-to-be to explore their options and possibilities to determine their desired colored scheme. This helpful article will get you started:
http://neotericexpressions.blogspot.com/2010/12/how-do-i-plan-my-wedding.html
Our partnership blog is designed to help you explore those color possibilities first hand by showing you inspiration and themes by color combination. We have popular colors like aqua and brown or pink and chocolate. We also feature not-so-traditional schemes like brown and gold, or dark purple and sage green. Perhaps you'll find something to help jump start your planning process within these helpful links.
If I can be of assistance or if you'd like more advice, email us info@neotericexpressions.com
Thanks,
Tiffany
http://www.neotericexpressions.com
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Posted on: Mar 4, 2011 at 11:22 AM
crosbykandace wrote:
i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
Ostrich Feather Centerpieces would be perfect for your wedding. You can rent these on Do-it-your self, or have a full service setup. Plus it's cheaper than buying flowers.
Large spandex vases with ostrich feathers, will raise the bar to your guests.
DesignerCenterpieces.com
Michael Thomas
www.designercenterpieces.com
Info@designercenterpieces.com
682-626-5187
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cnaysmith
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Posted on: Mar 6, 2011 at 8:13 PM
check out the alexanderhomesteadweddings.com They have very good food, and are all inclusive if you like
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janetrojas87
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Posted on: Mar 7, 2011 at 3:22 PM
okay
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MAGEvents
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Posted on: Mar 15, 2011 at 1:43 AM
The Knot is a great resource for photos on center pieces, favors, bouquets, etc. I always use it for photos to show brides options. You dont have to know all the details, you can still get on and take a peek and get some inspiration. Martha Stewart weddings is another fabulous site for getting ideas.
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Posted on: Mar 28, 2011 at 2:29 PM
I agree that you don't have to know all the details! Kind of looking at a bunch of Ideas and finding what you really like works If you ever have any questions on where to register check out www.pamperedchef.biz/shannondelo its for the Pampered Chef. It's really awesome and the Bride and Groom get FREE Stuff based on what their people buy them.
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MoniIfereFlorals
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Posted on: Mar 31, 2011 at 3:51 AM
Ok, well seems many people gave you ideas. Try weddingbee.com and google diy bride, etc. You should find quite a bit that way.
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Mona6
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Posted on: May 17, 2011 at 2:37 PM
Congratulations! It's an exciting time to plan your dream wedding, best of luck.
Mona
http://www.monaschocolates.com
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EmeraldKiss
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Posted on: May 17, 2011 at 5:38 PM
I just joined too and have a similar question. Hoping to find a good venue for my wedding, thnks.
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pajaroservices
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Posted on: Sep 28, 2011 at 12:01 PM
EmeraldKiss wrote:
@ emerald kiss when are you planning your wedding for? what state and what exactly are you looking for a good website to go to?
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Dorothy.Martinez
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Posted on: Sep 29, 2011 at 11:20 AM
djdaddyd wrote:
The post wedding reception is the fun part of the day where family and friends gather to eat, mingle, and PARTY. Thats where the DJ comes in. He will orchestrate with you what music to play and will assist in MC'ing the affair as well. I specialize in weddings, so when you are ready to plan that part of the wedding contact me:
DJ DaddyD at www.djdaddydonline.com.
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Posted on: Sep 29, 2011 at 1:49 PM
Hello, I am a wedding planner in Lancaster, PA. I would be glad to help you with this process. Please contact me at 717-682-1266.
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pajaroservices
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Posted on: Sep 29, 2011 at 2:21 PM
pajaroservices wrote:
EmeraldKiss wrote: @ emerald kiss when are you planning your wedding for? what state and what exactly are you looking for a good website to go to I can help you I'm an event planner please call me 937-331-8628?
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occasionsbyjc
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Posted on: Oct 3, 2011 at 10:40 PM
Well I am a Wedding Coordinator in Georgia and you really should sit down with your Fiance and discuss what you are willing to pay for your wedding...The first step should be your budget. There is really no reason to look for a Planner, photographer, caterer, or venue if you don't know what you want to spend. The first question any vendor is going to ask you is what is your budget. This site is a good tool for finding a plethora of vendors just make sure you have a good idea of what you want. If you have any more questions please feel free to contact me at 404-913-2-I-DO or via email at pjohnson@occasionsbyjc.com!
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Posted on: Oct 7, 2011 at 4:56 PM
Hello to you both. Planning an event is very stressful. Don't let it stress you. I am a Wedding Director/Coordinator/Planner/Florist/Decor. with alot of experience. I would have you to come out first for a FREE consultation that and show you a video. I will go through the entire process in having a perfect wedding cost effective, while fitting your budget. I am in Houston, Texas and I do travel as well. I am also hosting a FREE WEDDING SEMINAR/BRIDAL-EVENT SHOWCASE. I will have vendors there and no obligation but willing to assist you and answer any of your questions as well as help you in planning your wedding. Feel free to look at my website www.yourdayweddings.biz and you can also register for the show if you are available. Otherwise, call me personally and I can answer any if your questions. Thanks Bernice
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kimberlygraham161
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Posted on: Oct 11, 2011 at 6:01 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
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info
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Posted on: Oct 13, 2011 at 4:26 PM
Wedding Wire is excellent as well. I think The Knot can be useful but sometimes overwhelming. I am a wedding coordinator and designer located in KY and willing to travel. I do many wedding this way. Let me know if I can help at all. Check out my site at www.fancyevents.net also most the time a wedding planner can save you more than three times what you pay them so keep that in mind.
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turnersgirl84
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Posted on: Oct 26, 2011 at 3:31 PM
I have been planning my wedding and I am down to the last 6 months... I have found the following websites very helpful:
www.1800registry.com
www.theknot.com
www.projectwedding.com
www.weddingcompass.com
www.weddingwire.com
www.weddingchannel.com
www.weddingbee.com
And if you're looking for deals/ideas I have used the following:
http://deals.weddingchannel.com/deal/georgia
www.etsy.com
www.save-on-crafts.com
www.annsbridalbargains.com
www.theweddingoutlet.com
www.ebay.com (this is where I found a lot of my stuff)
I also suggest going to any bridal shows in your area because they often give out awesome deals and it will give you some ideas of locations, caterers, etc.
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info
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Posted on: Nov 2, 2011 at 9:31 PM
Hello again, I wanted to tell you that just because you hire a wedding planner does not mean you lose control. You have all the power, we are not all like David Tutero(who I adore) and come in and take over. A good relationship should be formed with your planner and they should be there to guide you, bounce ideas off of, assist in negotiations, etc... But they should never take away your planning. If you need anything give me a shout I would be glad to help. We also are there to relieve your stress and believe me there will be stress. I believe my brides should not worrry about anything that's my job. If you need anything just holler (401)FANCYME 326-2963 info@fancyevents.net fancyevents.net
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Sandra
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Posted on: Nov 15, 2011 at 4:19 PM
crosbykandace wrote:
^ that was me, didnt realize i wasnt still logged in.
Crosbykandace, you can definitely plan the wedding yourself. Just remember that it can be overwhelming. I suggest you delegate responsibilities to your wedding party so you won't feel so stressed. Weddingwire.com is a great site and has lots of vendors in your area. You should also go to a bridal show to get ideas as well as meet vendors in your area and sometimes you can get great discounts. TAKE A CAMERA for pictures.
If you need favors, invitations and bridal party gifts visit my site: www.yourweddinggirl.com
Read this article so you know what and to whom to delegate responsibilities:
http://www.examiner.com/wedding-planning-in-houston/wedding-party-responsibilities-who-does-what
Good Luck!
Sandra
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imageswnd
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Posted on: Nov 15, 2011 at 11:46 PM
Hello,
Congratulation on your upcoming wedding! Starting a new life is a wonderful experience and yes eventective is a wonderful resource.
crosbykandace wrote:
i just started to plan my wedding so i was looking at different websites to help. i went to theknot.com but it was asking specific questions about locations and so on. we know othe city but not sure of location. we know our date and colors but thats about it. is this website actually good at helping find what i want or is it a waste of time?
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318design
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Posted on: Nov 17, 2011 at 9:18 AM
Check out louisianaweddingstyle.wordpress.com great resource
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Posted on: Nov 30, 2011 at 12:43 AM
I'm Michelle Whyte with Ambiance Special Events (www.ambiancespecialevents.com) I hope to answer your original question of what websites to check out. The best bet for any DIY bride-to-be is to Get Organized and break it down. Inspiration is everywhere but it can also be overwhelming. You may find it helpful to organize and only research one area at a time. Try to look up only bouquet styles or invitations designs or square cakes one at a time. Try a general search on your search engine of choice for the things you know you like or may be interested in, ie: red rose bouquets or purple wedding decor and let the websites find you. Consider Style Me Pretty, Martha Stewart Wedding, Broke Ass Bride, and/or Wedding Paper Divas for starters. However, The Knot tends to be the most popular among brides.
In the meantime, if you are thinking about a wedding planner, instead, consider a wedding coach! The benefit? You get to stay in control of your budget by only paying for the time and advice you need.
Just starting out? Where to begin!
Bid Overload? Negotiating tactics!
Guest List Headaches? Friends and family not helping out as expected?
Get Guidelines in a Snap!
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