Interview with the Bride

Interview with the Bride

Posted by phertlein, on 2/1/2013, in category Vendors

Eventective sat down with Meri & Christian, a bride-to-be and her fiancé, to discuss their event planning process, what the modern bride is using the internet for, and what tools we should be providing on the site.  Much of what we heard was what we expected, but there were some surprises.

Eventective:  Congratulations, I understand your wedding is in October and you’ve been done with your planning for months. 

Meri & Christian: Thanks, we were lucky enough to find the perfect place early on.  I think it was the second place we visited.

E:  Did you use Eventective for any of your planning.

M&C:  Just for browsing venues, really.  We never submitted a request or anything like that.  We were looking for something rustic and we checked out a barn just outside of Portland, but their price was way outside of our budget.  Then we went to an open house at North Dam Mill and found exactly what we were looking for - a rustic former-mill that we can decorate however we like.

E:  That’s understandable, 95% of our visitors use the site to browse the venues we have listed, only 5% actually submit requests on the site.  It’s too bad we don’t have a “rustic” filter for browsing venues, that might have helped. 

M&C:  We also had difficulty finding a venue that didn’t have restrictions.  Many places told us we would have to use their caterer, or they had fixed packages that didn’t match our budget or style. 

E:  In terms of timing, did you search Eventective for any of your vendors at the same time you were reviewing venues, or did you want to determine your venue first?

M&C:  We definitely focused on finding our venue first.  But we weren’t even aware that we could find vendors on Eventective.  Several friends had given us recommendations for DJs and Photographers, but none of them got back to us.  We were kind of surprised that nobody called back.  At first we wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt, but after several days with no response we moved on. 

Eventually one DJ did get back to us, and when we met with Kevin from Amazing DJ we hit it off right away.  We are so pleased with Kevin, that we hired him as our DJ and our photographer.

E:  Did you use any other sites for your planning?

M&C:  We used The Knot, but not to search for services.  We checked out their timeline and their budget tools, but we preferred to use the checklist in the back of our Conscious Bride Wedding Planner.  We really liked keeping the contact information for all our vendors in one place, and it’s hard to do that online.

E:  Did you use any other online resources?

M&C:  We just love  It’s a great resource for creative ideas and finding the perfect something for your wedding.  We got our invitations and save-the-date cards on there. 

E:   Well, thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with us.  Congratulations again, and best of luck to you!


Meri and Christian are one example of a couple using the internet to help plan their wedding.  A majority of couples go online at some point to research wedding venues and vendors, read reviews and get ideas for their big day.  There is opportunity for event businesses to capitalize on this with a strong online presence.

  • Sell yourself with a well-designed website and updated listings on the major wedding planning websites.
  • Allocate some of your marketing budget to online advertising so you optimize your business on the major search engines and stand out from the competition.
  • Add wedding packages, rental rates or sample menus with pricing information to your website and Eventective listing.  Couples are looking for this information and it helps generate more targeted inquiries for you if they know upfront what you typically charge. 
  • Because of the digital world we live in, couples expect quick communication.  Make sure you respond to prospective customers in a timely manner.  Even if you are not available on their requested date or the budget they indicated is not within your range, you should respond.  They may be flexible with the date and budget and will appreciate a response from you.

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Posted by
Dan Kinney
Wednesday, February 6, 2013 2:51 PM
Not much useful info.  What?  Do you own the Knot too?  Looks like a sales pitch to me.  1 star at best.
Posted by
Mitch Istre (Music-By-Mitch DJ Productions)
Wednesday, February 6, 2013 6:04 PM
I can not say I did read anything here that surprised me. However, it was interesting how they mentioned DJs and photographers who did not get back to them in a "timely" manner. I don't know what is their defination of timely but I make every effort, when a prospective client contacts me, to get back to them that day if possible. Often times, when I do get back to them and make my pitch, I often never hear back. Then I have to decide if I am going to follow up and how many times I will do so until I decide to just move on to the next prospect. If I can offer one thing to a prospective couples, if you like the vendor you spoke with but still wish to "shop around", it would behoove you to get back to that vendor as soon as possible before someone else books them. That has happened with me on a couple of occasions where a prospective client told me they wanted to book but they also wanted to look around. By the time they got back to me, I was already booked.
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Wednesday, February 6, 2013 6:33 PM
Great article dont forget wedding security guards  provided by guardNOW.
Posted by
Wednesday, February 6, 2013 7:53 PM
Good information. I also answer all requests usually within an hour. It's frustrating when couples book a date and time, then bail out for a measley 5 or 10 dollars difference. After they find there are extra charges involved in their great dal, they try to come back to me, but I refuse to re-book  
Posted by
Thursday, February 7, 2013 11:04 AM
I agree...with Mitch...I have made several calls to potential I see speaking with me can explain my services much better then any web page can.  Afterall, I am an entertainer.  I have plans to spruce up my web page with Video and Audio samples of what a true professional can offer but...time allotment for this is hard.  People want a low price with a major star advertising presentation.  I understand everyone wants a quality service so speaking to your a must before booking.  Brides need to be is easy throw these units together these days but equipment is not all of this service.  If you can not do it on a cheap mic, you can't do it at all.
Posted by
Thursday, February 7, 2013 12:11 PM
Thanks for posting this article.  It's good to hear what brides are actually experiencing sometimes.
Posted by
Thursday, February 21, 2013 10:17 AM
We have reached out to many potential client" and maybe 2-10 reply back. I felt that many of the leads were just browsers, not really looking for vendors. And on the other hand, I understand, we tried to reach out a vendor that a client wanted and they did not call back. I happy that you posted this article, help the rest of us to keeping our game up.
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