High School Reunion Don’ts

So, you got the invitation in the mail and you’re wondering “should I actually go to this thing?”

Maybe you’re feeling nostalgic and just want to see some old familiar faces, or maybe you’re seeking a little revenge against the people who tormented you during your formative years. Whatever your reasons, anticipating your high school reunion can be stressful. However, if you get into the right mindset, your high school reunion can be a fun and memorable experience. You should definitely go!

If you do decide to go, here are some things you don’t want to do once you’re there.

Don’t take the reunion too seriously

Your high school reunion can be an anxiety-inducing event, but it doesn’t have to be. Attending a high school reunion is an emotional experience and it’s important to remember that you’re not alone in feeling a bit anxious about going—everyone else is probably feeling the same way!

Chances are good that the people you went to high school have changed quite a bit and probably won’t still be the immature kids they once were (well, some of them might be!). With a positive attitude, an open mind and a little bit of confidence, you should be equipped to handle any awkward social situation that arises.

Don’t be a jerk!

Leave the old high school stereotypes at home! When you’re at your reunion, you should act like the responsible and courteous adult you’ve grown to be. Remember, you’re going to relive some old memories and hopefully have a really good time. Try not to take your old baggage with you.

Whether you were one of the jocks, popular kids, nerds, goths, gangsters, hippies or something else, chances are that you don’t fit into one of those categories anymore. Most other people probably won’t fit into these stereotypes either, so you probably shouldn’t bring them up because it might make for an uncomfortable situation.

Don’t bring your significant other

Think about it—do you really want to drag your significant other into your sordid past? Imagine all the drama that could start! Plus, you’ll never be able to shamelessly flirt with any of your old crushes if you’ve got the old ball-and-chain looking over your shoulder!

On the other hand, you might want to bring your S.O. along to show off what a great catch you ended up with. If you decide to do this, beware that they might get really bored by the whole ordeal. Just remember that this is your past, your night. It’s your call.

Don’t dress inappropriately

You should find out beforehand what kind of attire is suitable for your reunion, but unless otherwise stated, it’s probably a casual affair.

That being said, try not to overdress or “dress to impress” too much. If you go overboard with your appearance you will stand out and people will notice—but that may not be a good thing.

Also, try not to do anything weird like dress in an outfit from high school or something like that. This isn’t a costume party, and no one else will be dressed that way. There are definitely better ways to let people know who you are, like telling them or wearing the name tag you’ll be provided with.

Don’t lie about your profession

Don’t create a bogus lie like “Romy and Michelle” did when they said they “invented Post-its.” People will most likely not believe your story, and you’ll leave the event feeling like the same pathetic loser you were in high school.

Now that you know what to avoid, you should be well on your way to having a fun high school reunion. Just remember: be honest and be yourself and things will work out just fine!